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Avoid the #1 Mistake in Presentations
For some of you, school is already underway again; here it starts one week from today. Somehow, the return to classes cranks a lot of other activities into motion. I think that's why I'm getting more requests for help with presentations these days. Ironically, the explosion in communication channels only makes the formal, face-to-face communication event even more critical than it was. There's more pressure to get the message across and connect during that half-hour presentation or interview.
Artfully Changing The Subject
This is most useful when you're asked something you'd rather not answer at that particular moment. Or perhaps you want to ask a specific question, or you're simply in a state of comatose boredom or that someone has asked you a question that's completely none of their business. There are many interesting motives for wanting to change the subject of conversation. Your motive might be "just because." :)
It's not that hard and usually people don't mind a change in the subject. You might be doing everyone a favor. To begin this tactful conversation maneuver, make sure you're listening closely. That is an inherent advantage introverts share: introverts are better listeners!
First, listen for your cue to segue (pronounced "seg way".)